With a divorce, emotions are high and the stakes can be even higher. Depending on the situation, the couple may have many things to divide or only a few expensive assets. Regardless of the kind of divorce this is, it's always important that the client receives the best possible settlement.
If you are leaving your spouse for any reason, then it's a good idea to get a complete idea about what kinds of assets you have before you even bring up the idea of a divorce. You know that once you bring up divorce as a possibility, it could mean the end of trust between you and your spouse. That could potentially be a signal to your spouse to change passwords or move assets, neither of which you want to happen before you identify those items.
Emotions are often conflicting during a divorce. You're essentially fighting against someone you love or once loved as a result of your circumstances. It's a good idea to do what you can to take a step back and avoid being emotional when making decisions that have to do with your finances. If you don't, then you could make a decision on a whim or due to nostalgia that later comes back to haunt you.
Your primary concern following divorce should be retaining as many assets as possible and having a stable financial outlook moving forward. With time, you can come to an agreement that will help you do that. Your attorney will help you find a settlement that works for your situation and resolves your conflict.