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Focusing on your kids during divorce reduces tension

| Mar 14, 2018 | child custody

Your children watch what you do all the time. They may even mimic your actions or the actions of their other parent. Now that you’re going through a divorce, you’re concerned about this. You want to make sure that your child isn’t scarred by this chance in circumstances.

The truth about children is that no matter how hard you try, it’s impossible to conceal all the tension that a divorce causes. What you need to do to help is to focus on being sensitive to your child’s needs. For instance, your little one may lash out because you or the other parent isn’t there all the time. It’s important for you, in that circumstance, to take time to make your child feel special and loved.

The one good thing about going through a divorce with kids is that they can see how you react to the changes. If a once-volatile home situation now is calm, your child may become more relaxed and happier. If you act positively to the changes that are occurring or approach them calmly, your child is likely to pick up on those habits as well.

Children often feel guilty if their parents aren’t getting along with one another, so no matter what your situation is, it’s wise to talk to your kids about how much you love and care about them. Focus on making sure they don’t feel like they’re to blame and make them feel secure. As long as your child feels secure, you should see a reduction in tantrums or unusual clingy behavior. Our site has more information on what you can do to make divorce easier.

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