Starting a family is a key ambition for many couples. Having a child is an exciting moment, but it is also very challenging. Parents have to try and get on the same page in terms of parenting, as consistency is very important for children.
However, some couples do not end up on the same page in terms of parenting styles. Different parenting styles can cause real issues in the marriage. Outlined below are a few things to consider.
Authoritative vs permissive styles
Nobody possesses the blueprint of how to be a perfect parent. It’s a learning curve for any parent, and raising a child is full of ups and downs. Nonetheless, there are some notable styles, such as the authoritative and permissive styles.
An authoritative parenting style is not as daunting as it first sounds. This style is all about providing a warm and loving relationship for the child, but also setting boundaries and clear expectations. This style often presents itself during meal times. Children will be actively involved in meal preparation and parents will lead by example in terms of the produce they consume.
In contrast to the authoritative style of parenting, permissive parenting involves letting the child make a lot of their own choices, with little interference or disciplinary measures from parents. The parent/child relationship functions similarly to a friendship.
Both of these styles have advantages and drawbacks, and there are no right or wrong answers necessarily. However, if each parent has a contrasting style, this can cause marital disputes. Differences in parenting styles are one of the leading causes of divorce.
Whatever family law issue you are facing, it can be very helpful to have legal guidance behind you.